One day I hope to look back on this post and be embarrassed. Cringing at my writing skills.
Itās Easter weekend. A holiday founded in lies and magic. The bunny version that is. I think the lies are worth the magic.
Kids are amazing in so many ways. They force us to play. To be lost in silly if we allow ourselves. To live in a world of imagination.
The Treasure of Underconsuming
Weāre a quirky hybrid family. Weāre not mass consumers. If we do shop itās usually at the thrift store. Not because we canāt afford it. But we donāt need all that shiny hip stuff. And besides, thrifting feels like Easter Egg hunting. Itās such a treasure-finding adventure.
Our daughterās closet, full of these second-hand finds, is her artist pallet. She has so many strange one-of-a-kind pieces to work with. I love to see what she puts together to wear each day. Like any great creative, itās never the same thing twice.
We donāt watch TV. We donāt have Netflix or Hulu or whatever else is out there. I wouldnāt even know. Iāve never seen an episode of Game of Thrones. Iām sure I would love it and it would suck me in like nobodyās business.
Our kids go to public school and bring their lunch with seaweed and feel left out that they donāt have phones.
Yesterday we were packing for our Easter trip to Washington DC and the Blue Ridge Parkway. A little bit a city, a little bit a country. It was a storm. When you donāt all escape into screens it can make for some heated emotions. We took a whole day off to pack and it felt like trudging through mud.
But we made it and weāre off to our adventures today. Iām sure weāll have our usual ups and downs. When itās good, itās very very good. When itās bad, it can feel awful.
My husband and I have chosen to raise our kids without screens being the center of our world. It has not been an easy choice.
We feel like weāre passing the torch to our kids. This planet needs our attention. The planet and the people.
Writing fixes everything
I love to write and have messed around with it for a long time. The only real āpostingā Iāve done is one-liners in a sleepy little t-shirt shop.
Iām a multi-passionate creative. I can not draw or paint like the masters. My gift is my creative juices working to make connections. Sometimes simple. I can throw together a healthy dinner of embellished leftovers in less than 10 minutes. 8 days a week.
The connections that flow through my head are sometimes bizarre. Maybe Iāll share some later.
Iām a nurse. I also have a product design degree. I joke with our kids, either Iām really smart or really stupid.
So I get these crazy ideas about how to fix some problems I see in the world. And my audience (usually family) says, āGreat Mom! How you gonna do that?ā My answer is always, āI donāt know that. I leave that to the engineers.'ā They love us designers.
Writing seems to be the perfect outlet for creativity. Just pen to paper or fingers to keyboard. No laborious product prototypes involved.
Sharing to understand is self perpetuating.
Iām on a mad study of some genius writers Iāve stumbled on to help me hone my writing skills. Boring you is not my goal. I donāt want to put you to sleep. Thatās the opposite of what we need here.
We need to be helping each other wake the freak up! Our Joy depends on it. The state of the planet depends on it.
Visiting Washington DC was our son's request. Weāll see lots of amazing free (tax paid) sites. Weāll be sending love out to the bridge tragedy near there.
Weāre not a church going family. But we talk God all the time. Mastering the God flow and teaching the kids this magical, hopefully life consuming skill, is my Olympic sport.
I wish you a holiday full of connection and rejuvenation. And if you have kids, get lost in their Joy of the egg hunt.


Good read Connie !
Good writing. I am an engineer. Do not trust too muche engineers, because they make some mistakes too. I am retired, so I do not make anymore mistake and life is beautiful.