We have SO much in common, Connie. Healthy food, minimal screen-time, books, books, and more books! 🥰
I have wished I had allowed less screen time, and also, I know it's all water under the bridge now. For me, it was a reward for getting school work done. Especially, once we'd left town, and they didn't have neighbor kids to play with anymore.
Anyway, we did and continue to do the best we can. I've learned SO much more SINCE, and I'm thankful to converse with my kids and just allow them to parent as they see fit, because I still don't know "how best" to raise a child!!
First of all...I've rarely seen a woman saying they're a damn good mom! So kudos to you on that Connie! And as rick said, don't discount the screen free years and the life you've already given them!
A note I read recently reminded me of you. It was something to the effect of "Hang out with me long enough and I'll brainwash you into believing in yourself." You totally have that quality, Shruthi!
You're right Courtney. I told my 85 yr old Mom recently, when she was lamenting about being a drunk parent, that even though she was lost in a pattern of suffering, I always felt safe, cared for, and loved growing up.
Bless your fierce and protective spirit Connie. You've got a cheerleader over here in your corner. Though I'd also encourage you not to discount the device-free years you've already achieved. Your kids will never lose that essential reference point to the Being of your family. When my son was born I cancelled our cable subscription and we never reinstated it. That was 30 years ago. My kids are fully fluent with all the electronic tools by now of course, but I watch how much they still prioritize the human stuff, connecting with friends, time in nature, exercise, crafts with their hands, pursuit of their art and music. Trust what you've anchored deep in their souls. They might drift and explore, but I'll bet you have more enduring, root-system leverage than you think.
Rick, I so love your approach to encouragement! Thank you💚 I just soaked it in without feeling like someone was dancing on my toes. I am definitely going to study your clarity and sincerity.
We have SO much in common, Connie. Healthy food, minimal screen-time, books, books, and more books! 🥰
I have wished I had allowed less screen time, and also, I know it's all water under the bridge now. For me, it was a reward for getting school work done. Especially, once we'd left town, and they didn't have neighbor kids to play with anymore.
Anyway, we did and continue to do the best we can. I've learned SO much more SINCE, and I'm thankful to converse with my kids and just allow them to parent as they see fit, because I still don't know "how best" to raise a child!!
I love that your family left town, Kyle. Such a loving move 💚 Well done Mom!
First of all...I've rarely seen a woman saying they're a damn good mom! So kudos to you on that Connie! And as rick said, don't discount the screen free years and the life you've already given them!
A note I read recently reminded me of you. It was something to the effect of "Hang out with me long enough and I'll brainwash you into believing in yourself." You totally have that quality, Shruthi!
Hahaha I love that! And also, check your dms Connie! I want to talk with you more!😝🙈😂
"No Queens" day. Hahaha.
At some point we let them go and know we gave them wings, right? It starts in high school. They will remember what you taught them.
You're right Courtney. I told my 85 yr old Mom recently, when she was lamenting about being a drunk parent, that even though she was lost in a pattern of suffering, I always felt safe, cared for, and loved growing up.
Bless your fierce and protective spirit Connie. You've got a cheerleader over here in your corner. Though I'd also encourage you not to discount the device-free years you've already achieved. Your kids will never lose that essential reference point to the Being of your family. When my son was born I cancelled our cable subscription and we never reinstated it. That was 30 years ago. My kids are fully fluent with all the electronic tools by now of course, but I watch how much they still prioritize the human stuff, connecting with friends, time in nature, exercise, crafts with their hands, pursuit of their art and music. Trust what you've anchored deep in their souls. They might drift and explore, but I'll bet you have more enduring, root-system leverage than you think.
Rick, I so love your approach to encouragement! Thank you💚 I just soaked it in without feeling like someone was dancing on my toes. I am definitely going to study your clarity and sincerity.
Connie I absolutely loved this!! And you sound like you are mommying very very well! ❤️
Thank you Sherry 💚 I know you know the trials and joys of mothering...and beyond.